AITA for telling her to get over herself?

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For two years, a lively Corgi has been more than just a pet; she’s a vibrant pulse in a young couple’s life, a beacon of joy and chaos intertwined.

As the mornings burst alive with the dog’s boundless energy and the owner’s uninhibited songs, the small apartment trembles with the raw, unfiltered love and the beautiful mess of living with ADHD.

Yet beneath this spirited routine lies a fragile tension: a fiancé, overwhelmed by pregnancy and relentless migraines, struggling to find peace amidst the noise and excitement that once brought happiness.

Their world teeters between understanding and frustration, love and patience, as they navigate the delicate balance of growing pains and enduring bonds.

AITA for telling her to get over herself?
‘AITA for telling her to get over herself?’

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The original poster (OP) values their strong bond and interactive style with their dog, which clashes directly with the fiancée's urgent need for quiet and rest due to pregnancy-related health issues like severe migraines.

The conflict centers on the OP's difficulty in consistently modifying a deeply ingrained, high-energy morning routine despite acknowledging the negative impact it has on their partner.

Is the OP justified in feeling that their es**blished dynamic with their pet should not require major adjustment for their fiancée's temporary condition, or is the fiancée's need for immediate, quiet space, especially during a difficult pregnancy, the priority that requires the OP to make significant, immediate behavioral changes?