AITA for Canceling My Parents’ 40th Anniversary Party After They Refused to Invite My Wife?
The individual (32F) and her wife (34F) have been in a committed relationship for five years and married for two.
Despite this, the individual's parents have never fully accepted the relationship, although they maintain that they still love their daughter.
When the parents asked the individual to plan their 40th-anniversary party, she took on all the organization.
However, during final planning, the mother stated that the wife would not be attending because the parents did not want "drama" or to make extended family "uncomfortable." When the individual insisted that she would not attend without her wife, she canceled all arrangements for the party, leading to conflict with her parents and mixed reactions from extended family.
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The individual is now facing significant fallout after canceling an event she had fully organized, driven by the need to defend her wife’s inclusion against her parents' refusal to acknowledge their marriage publicly.
The core question is whether standing up for her wife by canceling the party was a necessary act of boundary enforcement, or if it was an overreaction that unjustly ruined the parents' milestone celebration, causing unnecessary division.