AITAH for telling my wife I'd have never asked her out if I knew she was a sugar baby?
The narrator and his wife have been together for five years and married for over a year. While cleaning, the narrator found his wife's expensive-looking jewelry, which prompted him to ask her about its origin.
The wife revealed the jewelry was from an ex and cost a significant amount of money, which confused the narrator since she had previously stated she only had one ex from high school/college.
After the narrator pressed her about the inconsistency, she admitted to having several sugar dadd*es for about three years, leading the narrator to feel lied to and questioning if he would have started the relationship if he had known.
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The narrator is deeply upset because he feels that his wife withheld critical information about her past relationships and financial arrangements, leading him to feel that his decision to pursue the relationship was based on false premises.
The central conflict is between the wife's desire to keep her past secret to avoid judgment and the husband's need for complete honesty in the foundation of their marriage.
Does the past a*sociation with sugar dadd*es negate the current relationship, or is the true issue the significant, deliberate deception?
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