AITAH for telling my gf to never bring up th****omes again?

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The user's girlfriend, who is more experienced s*xually, recently expressed a desire to introduce a third person into their private relationship dynamics.

This request came after the user had previously expressed some insecurity about his girlfriend's greater experience. The user immediately and firmly rejected the suggestion, stating clearly that he would never agree to this arrangement.

He set a firm boundary by warning that if the topic is brought up again, he will end the relationship.

AITAH for telling my gf to never bring up th****omes again?
‘AITAH for telling my gf to never bring up th****omes again?’

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The original poster is currently navigating a serious relationship conflict where his firm boundary regarding s*xual exclusivity has been directly challenged by his partner's expressed desire for an open dynamic.

His emotional position is one of insecurity amplified by the request, leading him to issue an ultimatum to protect what he perceives as essential to the relationship.

The core question is whether the girlfriend’s desire for a specific s*xual experience justifies pushing past the partner's absolute 'no,' and conversely, whether issuing an immediate relationship-ending ultimatum is a fair response to a single request that v***ates a fundamental boundary.