AITAH for not forgiving my fiancé for his "Drunken Slip-Up" before our wedding?
The Original Poster (OP) and her fiancé had been together for five years and were scheduled to get married in just two weeks. All arrangements, including the venue, the dress, and guests traveling from out of town, were finalized for the wedding.
The situation changed after the fiancé's bachelor party weekend in Las Vegas. Upon his return, the fiancé acted strangely, leading the OP to suspect som**hing was wrong.
After initial denials, he admitted to sleeping with a stripper, claiming he was blackout drunk and that the act was unintentional. The OP is now questioning whether she was wrong to call off the wedding due to this admitted in***elity.
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The OP is grappling with a significant breach of trust following her fiancé's admission of cheating, which he attributed to extreme intoxication and external pressures.
Her core conflict lies between accepting his apology and the potential long-term viability of a marriage built on a foundation where such a severe boundary v***ation occurred and was excused by external factors.
Given the proximity to the wedding and the fundamental nature of the betrayal, the central question remains: Is the OP justified in refusing to forgive this "drunken slip-up" and proceeding with the decision to call off the marriage, or should she reconsider forgiveness in light of his immediate remorse and offers for amends?
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