AITAH for being furious that my wife went to a strip club?
The poster, a 35-year-old man, has been married to his 35-year-old wife for eight years. They have a five-year-old daughter.
The wife recently planned a three-day trip out of the city with her group of friends, and the poster agreed to look after their daughter while she was gone.
Upon her return, the poster discovered pictures posted by one of her friends showing the group at a strip club.
When confronted, the wife claimed nothing inappropriate happened, but this explanation did not rea*sure the poster, leading to tension and him moving to the spare bedroom while questioning the honesty of their past trips.
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The poster is currently feeling angry and betrayed because his wife engaged in an activity, visiting a strip club, that she did not disclose to him before or during her trip, despite his agreement to support her outing.
His trust has been significantly damaged, causing him to doubt the overall honesty in their marriage.
The central conflict is whether a spouse can attend an activity like a strip club without informing their partner, even if nothing physical occurred, versus the poster's need for complete transparency and fidelity to the es**blished level of trust in the marriage.
Is the lack of disclosure about visiting a strip club a serious breach of trust, or is it an overreaction given the wife's claim that nothing physical happened?
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