AITAH for pushing back against partner as she called me a “coward” for wanting to use condoms
The original poster (OP), a 26-year-old man, is in a six-month relationship with his 23-year-old partner. A conflict has arisen regarding s*xual protection during int*****rse.
The partner insists on using the withdrawal m**hod (pull out) instead of condoms, arguing that abstaining from condoms is 'much s*xier' and provides a 'larger thrill.' The OP is concerned about the high risk of unintended pregnancy and other potential issues a*sociated with the withdrawal m**hod, leading him to doubt his position when she dismisses protection as unnecessary.
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The central conflict revolves around the OP prioritizing physical safety and responsibility concerning pregnancy risk, while his partner seems focused on maximizing s*xual excitement by rejecting reliable contraception.
The OP is left feeling pressured and questioning the validity of his health and safety concerns against his partner's strong preference for a less secure m**hod.
Does the partner's desire for a 's*xier' experience outweigh the tangible risks of pregnancy a*sociated with the withdrawal m**hod, or is the OP correct to insist on effective protection even if it impacts the perceived mood of the encounter?
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