AITAH for letting my kids loot my brother's house to prove my point.
The Original Poster (OP) had a disagreement with their brother regarding several Lego dioramas that the OP's nephew took home after a visit.
The OP viewed these small displays as personal items and requested their return, but the brother initially dismissed the request, saying it was just 'kids being kids.' When the brother failed to return the items on a subsequent meeting, the OP escalated the situation by telling their children that anything in the brother's house would be 'fair game' if the Lego was not returned during their next visit.
This resulted in the OP's children taking numerous items from the brother's home, leading to a major argument.
The central dilemma for the OP is whether their m**hod of retaliation, mirroring their brother's initial disregard for property, was justified.
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The conflict centers on a clash between the OP's need to enforce boundaries regarding personal property and the brother's dismissal of those boundaries when they involved his child.
The OP chose direct, reciprocal action to enforce a standard that the brother initially ignored, resulting in mutual loss and significant anger.
The core question remains whether enforcing a boundary through direct, proportional retaliation—even if it involves children—is a necessary step when polite requests are ignored, or if this action simply escalated a minor issue into a long-term family feud. Should the OP stand by their m**hod, or was the scale of the retaliation inappropriate?
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