dog has slept in my bed for 7 years
The Original Poster (OP) is facing a serious conflict after his long-term girlfriend recently moved in with him.
The core of the disagreement involves his dog of seven years, who has been a constant companion and emotional support for OP since he was a puppy. The situation escalated when the girlfriend physically pushed the dog in the chest.
The girlfriend has expressed discomfort with the dog sleeping in the bed, which OP tried to address by extensively washing linens and maintaining protective layers on the bedding. Despite these efforts, she remains upset, suggesting the dog is jealous.
OP is deeply protective of his dog, viewing him as family, and is now conflicted between his new relationship and his bond with his pet, questioning whether to issue an ultimatum or end the relationship.
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OP is currently in a difficult position where his commitment to his long-standing relationship with his dog directly clashes with the expectations and behaviors of his new girlfriend.
His strong emotional investment in the dog, who has provided significant personal support, makes him unwilling to compromise on the dog's comfort or place in his life.
The central question remains whether OP should enforce a firm boundary by issuing an ultimatum to his girlfriend, or if he should prioritize his well-being by ending the relationship with someone who shows aggression toward his beloved pet.
Readers must consider the weight of a seven-year bond versus a new romantic partnership under these circumstances.
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