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AITAH for refusing to give up my honeymoon suite for my sister’s wedding night?
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AITAH for refusing to give up my honeymoon suite for my sister’s wedding night?

My (29M) wife (28F) and I got married last year, but due to financial reasons, we postponed our honeymoon until this year. We finally booked a week-long trip at a beautiful resort, and we specifically chose a honeymoon suite with a private balcony and an ocean view. Now, my sister (25F) just got engaged, and she and her fiancé decided to have a quick wedding at the same resort. Our parents are ...

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AITA for demanding that my fiancé's parents change their plans to have a vacation at the same place as our honeymoon?
Family Conflict
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AITA for demanding that my fiancé's parents change their plans to have a vacation at the same place as our honeymoon?

My fiance and I have our wedding coming up in April. We had brainstormed for a while on where best to spend our honeymoon. We went over the more popular and well-known places but then landed on a more offbeat destination that I felt would truly be a great place for us to start our life as a married couple. I've been looking forward to it just being the two of us. I know he has a really hectic ...

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AITA for Telling My Sister I Get It, She’s Jealous and Still a Virgin, After She Told Me I’d Look Better in a Red Wedding Dress?
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AITA for Telling My Sister I Get It, She’s Jealous and Still a Virgin, After She Told Me I’d Look Better in a Red Wedding Dress?

I (29F) just got married. My sister “Tara” (27F) and I have never had the best relationship. She’s always been pretty insecure, and growing up, there was a lot of tension between us. I’ve always tried to be sensitive to it, but it’s been hard because she has a tendency to lash out in pa*sive-aggressive ways. It got much worse when I got into a college that she didn't get into. At my wedding,...

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AITAH for refusing to have a child with my girlfriend?
Parenting
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AITAH for refusing to have a child with my girlfriend?

My girlfriend 22F and I 23M have been together for 1.5 years. We’ve been friends for a few years before making it official so our families know each other very well. It was an easy transition from friends to lovers for everyone.. our families were comfortable with each other, so there was no need to introduce anyone. My gf and I recently moved into an apartment complex together 5 months ago, a...

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AITAH for being upset that my husband went to a strip club?
Relationship
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AITAH for being upset that my husband went to a strip club?

My husband has a p**n addiction. Not just the “watches too much” kind—he spent hundreds of dollars a year on secret accounts, private chats, On****ns, premium p**n sites, Instagram, Reddit, and Twitter. He was actively engaging, paying, and even talking to some of the content creators while I was home battling PPD after giving birth. When I found out, the betrayal was overwhelming due to th...

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AITA for confronting my boyfriend after finding out he subscribed to someone’s On****ns?
Relationship
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AITA for confronting my boyfriend after finding out he subscribed to someone’s On****ns?

So I (27F) found out my boyfriend (29M) is subscribed to a girl's On****ns. I wasn’t snooping, his email was open on the laptop and I saw a payment confirmation. I asked him about it, and he immediately got defensive, saying it's not a big deal and that it’s “just like watching p**n.” But it doesn’t feel the same to me. It’s not just a random video, it’s a real person he chose to pay, someone h...

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AITA for thinking people should stop posting self-congratulatory circle j**ks here?
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AITA for thinking people should stop posting self-congratulatory circle j**ks here?

I swear, every day there is a top post about "AITA for saving kittens from a notorious kitten a**ser?" or "AITA for breaking up with a convicted r***st?" These are not conflicts. These are not moral dilemmas. I thirst for juicy conflict where I get to reign down mighty judgement upon the poster. I want to question my own moral standings. I'm tired of the limp d**k posts where we're supposed...

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AITA for calling my fiancé a j**k?
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AITA for calling my fiancé a j**k?

My (28F) fiancé (38M) proposed to me last week, we've been dating for 2 years, he has a 15 yo daughter from a previous marriage, her mom pa*sed again 5 years ago and I have a 6 yo son. When my fiancé and I started to date, I noticed that his daughter had the master bedroom, I found it weird because I've never seen a child taking over the master bedroom before, but he brushed it off saying that ...

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AITA for not bringing a cake to a wedding I was uninvited from?
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AITA for not bringing a cake to a wedding I was uninvited from?

My (ex) best friend got married this Sat**day. I was supposed to be the maid of honor but she removed me from the wedding over a dispute regarding my makeup, hair, and "disinterest in the wedding". She uninvited me from the wedding after I told friends my side of the story. I was responsible for the cake at the wedding, but cancelled the order because I was uninvited and wanted to be reimburse...

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AITA for not baking an extra cupcake for my colleague?
Relationship
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AITA for not baking an extra cupcake for my colleague?

I (24/F) love baking, and I LOVE sharing my baked goods too. I generally get along with everyone else in the office except for this one guy (36/M) , which I will call Leo (not real name) whom I wasn't on very good terms with because of the events that happened years ago when I first joined the company years ago as a fresh graduate. Leo complained that I am "lazy", hates "cleaning up after my mi...

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AITA for refusing to take my SIL on a romantic getaway?
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AITA for refusing to take my SIL on a romantic getaway?

I (F28) have been friends with Brittany (F28) since we were about five or six, and we are very close to this day. As part of having a friendship with me, she was around my brother (M, would be 30) quite a lot as children, and their romance blossomed as teenagers. They were married five years ago. Unfortunately, my brother pa*sed two years ago in a tragic accident and left behind a mountain ...

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AITA for going into the lad*es room?
Boundaries
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AITA for going into the lad*es room?

I am a 31 yo man and was at a large store yesterday with my 5mo son when he did what babies do. I went over to the restrooms and saw that there wasn't a family/companion restroom, just a men's and women's. I went into the men's room and saw there was a cubicle and a few urinals, but no changing table. The sink didn't have a counter either. I walked out and hunted down an employee to ask whe...

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