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AITAH for telling my mother-in-law she’s not allowed in the delivery room
Boundaries
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AITAH for telling my mother-in-law she’s not allowed in the delivery room

I (27F) recently married my husband (27M) back in May of this year. My husband and I recently found out I was pr****nt and are very excited to first time parents. However, there’s an issue with his family. For context, my husband’s family is very large and close knit. Because of this there are boundary issues. My husband’s parents had two kids, my SIL (29F) and my husband the youngest. Wher...

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AITA for telling my son's African American girlfriend that she can a wig even if my son doesn't want her to ?
Relationship
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AITA for telling my son's African American girlfriend that she can a wig even if my son doesn't want her to ?

I'm (37f) a white woman, out of my depth on this topic, and too scared to ask anyone who is African American face-to-face. My son's (14m) first girlfriend is an African American girl (13f), who we'll call Nina. Usually, when I see her, she's a bubbly social b**terfly. She smiles a lot and is very talkative. Recently, I noticed Nina seeming less confident the times I see her. Her change in d...

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AITA for defending my boyfriend when my friends called him 'creepy'
Relationship
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AITA for defending my boyfriend when my friends called him 'creepy'

I (28f) got into a little fight with my friends during a video call and I just want some outside perspectives. I've been with my boyfriend (25m) for a little over 2 years now and i'm perfectly happy in our relationship. I was on a video call with a few of my friends (ranging from 28-31f) and one of my friends (31f) was complaining about her husbands (35m) att*tude towards menstrual products....

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AITAH for refusing to pay for my wife friend’s meal after she called me cheap
Relationship
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AITAH for refusing to pay for my wife friend’s meal after she called me cheap

My wife and I went out to dinner with her best friend last night. I offered to cover my wife’s meal and mine, but her friend just a*sumed I’d pay for hers too. When the check came, I put down enough for the two of us, and she looked at me like I had three heads. She laughed and said, “Wow, I didn’t realize you were that cheap.” I smiled and said, “I didn’t realize you were that ent*tled.” She t...

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AITA for telling my neighbour to mind her own business?
Other
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AITA for telling my neighbour to mind her own business?

I'm a single mother to an 11 year old girl, we recently got moved from the UK to America by my Company and it has been quite an adjustment but we're settling in well enough. She misses her friends and the family we left behind but we zoom regularly and she has begun to make new friends, especially after I found her a new Dojang to continue her Taekwondo. All in all, everything was going fine ex...

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AITA I offended my sisters while explaining why I didn't want children
Parenting
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AITA I offended my sisters while explaining why I didn't want children

I (28f), have 4 siblings, one of them being disabled. The other three have kids, this post is about A(35F) and B(32F), A have 4 kids (17F, 15M, 14M, 9F), the younger 3 have severe physical and mental disabilities. B have 3 (12M, 7M, 2F), the oldest and middle have the same disabilities as my older sister's children, and the younger have down syndrome. They are both SAHM, all the children are i...

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AITAH? I made my fiancé storm out of the house because he said my job is easy.
Work
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AITAH? I made my fiancé storm out of the house because he said my job is easy.

I (26F) am a part time housekeeper. I go to night school to finish my degree. I have a fiancé, Kenny (29M), who is a mechanic. The problem started between us almost recently. I have been asking Kenny to help me with the household ch**es more. But every time he gives excuses that he is busy or tired all day after dealing with cars. I get his job is a physically demanding jobs but so is mine. I ...

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AITA for yelling at my hushand in the middle of the night for this?
Other
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AITA for yelling at my hushand in the middle of the night for this?

So my husband and I have a 5 months old son. He's our first and as new parents we struggle a lot but no complaining as we help each other all we can. However I have been having this tiny, little issue with my husband lately. He constantly takes our son's pacifiers and chews on them like a dog for no reason causing them to be ruined. He does this everytime he spends time with our son. he'd e...

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AITAH for not selling my neighbor a thrifted rocking chair I JUST BOUGHT?
Other
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AITAH for not selling my neighbor a thrifted rocking chair I JUST BOUGHT?

I honestly have no words. I (27) just bought my house in july 2024. We have learned that most of the neighbors are all old as h**l.( 60s +) and are very nosey and onery that young families are moving into the neighborhood in recent years. They will just walk up to you and tell you this. I have been shopping thrift and estate sales to furnish this cute house. This morning, I came home from a...

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AITA for telling him I'm locking myself in the room for the rest of the vacation because I'm tired of holding his sisters kid?
Boundaries
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AITA for telling him I'm locking myself in the room for the rest of the vacation because I'm tired of holding his sisters kid?

My fiance and I were invited to go along on a trip to California for a week. I do not have my children with me due to them being with their father and having wrestling tournaments that they cannot miss (already spent hundreds on nonrefundable tickets for them to participate). We drove here with his family, so I was already quite exhausted when getting to the resort after having listened to an 8...

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AITA for secretly outbidding my in-laws for a house on our block?
Other
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AITA for secretly outbidding my in-laws for a house on our block?

My wife has a somewhat difficult relationship with her parents. The usual stuff you see on this sub: lack of respect for boundaries, bossiness, unso***ited opinions about personal choices. She has a hard time pushing back, in part because she is a natural people-pleaser, and in part because her parents paid for her long and expensive education. I don't have big issues with them, but then I don...

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AITA for taking away my brother's birthday cake after he had paid for it?
Other
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AITA for taking away my brother's birthday cake after he had paid for it?

My brother, “Rob,” is a self-proclaimed prankster. He loves pulling pranks on everyone, including strangers. His pranks, in my opinion, aren’t funny and may land him in serious trouble in the future. His “pranks” are just antagonising someone until he gets bored and then calling it a “prank.” Rob’s behaviour has seriously affected my relationship with him. When I first started dating my wife, ...

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