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AITA for telling my sister what she said is a HIPAA v***ation and she shouldn’t share personal information?
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AITA for telling my sister what she said is a HIPAA v***ation and she shouldn’t share personal information?

My sister works in healthcare and seems to like her job. She also likes to judge others and make comments about their lifestyle, especially if she doesn’t agree with it. Recently, we had a family gathering and she was talking to our dad about one of his cousins, in front of a room full of people. She brought up the topic by saying som**hing like, “Isn’t Dave one of our cousins?” She then tells...

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AITA for telling my mom that my stepdad called me ”Another man’s mistake”?
Family Conflict
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AITA for telling my mom that my stepdad called me ”Another man’s mistake”?

My (37M) stepdad has to pick me up because my (37F) mom is the boss and holds many meetings. I feel he has always disliked me, but yesterday it was severe when he picked me up from the train station. We agreed he would pick me up. The train arrived on time, and I got into his car. I greeted him, but he did not return the greeting and just slurred that I was another man’s mistake. I told hi...

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AITA for vetoing my husband's name choice for our child?
Parenting
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AITA for vetoing my husband's name choice for our child?

My husband and I were having trouble agreeing on a name for our daughter, so we decided we'd each pick one and then decide which arrangement sounded better to determine which name would be a first name and which would be the middle. It wasn't an in depth conversation so we didn't discuss vetoes or anything. I genuinely didn't think there would be anything he chose that I would hate that much. ...

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AITA for telling my husband if he divorces me because of my acne and menopause I will tell our adult children his reasons ?
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AITA for telling my husband if he divorces me because of my acne and menopause I will tell our adult children his reasons ?

Menopause has been h**l for me (51f). My looks have changed, with weight gain and severe acne being the most noticeable. The best acne treatments have not helped long-term. I am trying hard and failing to lose weight. My husband is very frustrated with the way I look. During a fight, he confessed that he is not physically attracted to me anymore. I told him, if he divorces me, I will tell o...

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AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought me to a sw***er party and tried to share me with another guy?

I (32F) have been with my boyfriend, let’s call him Alex (33M), for about a year now. For the most part, things have been really good. He’s funny, sweet, and we’ve always seemed to be on the same page about what we want in a relationship. We’ve talked about fantasies a few times, but nothing too crazy just light-hearted, fun conversations. Or at least, I thought that’s all they were. Last weeke...

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AITA because I think my daughter should get what she wants for breakfast?
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AITA because I think my daughter should get what she wants for breakfast?

My (F 44) Dad (68) has always been frugal. His frugality has served him well, he has a beautiful home, savings, he's been retired for over 10 years, multiple rental properties etc.. Recently my daughter (15) and I drove up from Phoenix to visit him over the weekend. Typically my Dad cooks breakfast every morning, on this particular morning, he didn't feel like it and told us we were going out ...

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AITA for putting up a camera during my neighbor’s pool build and then overhearing him say he hates us?
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AITA for putting up a camera during my neighbor’s pool build and then overhearing him say he hates us?

I live in the US suburbs and it’s summer. I replaced my AC system in March, which was a significant investment for us. Our new (6 months) neighbors in May they informed us they were putting in a pool. This was our first encounter with them. The pool company asked to use the path between our houses and gave us a poorly written liability waiver with inconsistent references. I saw that as opportu...

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AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly d*ed?
Relationship
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AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly d*ed?

I (35 f) recently separated from my fiancee (35 m) due to his excessive drinking, but we are still close and regularly see each other. After taking him to the ER overnight, I brought him home and he said he just wanted to chill solo so I left. I attempted to message him, but didn't hear back. This is unusual for him, however I wanted to respect his boundaries. Late that night (~10 pm), my e...

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AITAH for refusing to babysit again after sis didn't pick her kid up on time?
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AITAH for refusing to babysit again after sis didn't pick her kid up on time?

At the beginning of this week I(18F) babysat my sister's (26) two kids (2 and newborn). She is a single mother and went out to meet with friends to have lunch. She promised me to be back after few hours. I didn't want to babysit since it would cost me precious ecam prep time and I was anxious because of the newborn and my zero experience but he begged and cried so much I did it. She didn't ...

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AITA for locking my bedroom door at night to keep my dad's girlfriend's kid out?
Family Conflict
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AITA for locking my bedroom door at night to keep my dad's girlfriend's kid out?

My dad moved his girlfriend and her son (5) in with us in October. I (15) guess my dad's girlfriend had hyped her son up to have a brother and he's been clingy with me since they moved in. When I'm home he's following me around and wanting me to play with him. He tries to get inside my room whether I'm there or not. Sometimes I'll get home from a friends house and he's bouncing on my bed and t...

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I contacted the wife of the man my wife has been cheating on me with, and told her husband is cheating on her with my wife. My wife is mad at me for telling her, AITAH?
Relationship
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I contacted the wife of the man my wife has been cheating on me with, and told her husband is cheating on her with my wife. My wife is mad at me for telling her, AITAH?

Long story short, I caught my wife 3 days ago s*xting another man. Our 13 years of marriage has been on the rocks before I found out. She was remorseful about it until I talked to the wife. I did some digging about this guy and found out he was married. I found her phone number, and talked to her to tell her what happened and where to find the messages. Well, the guy and my wife work together ...

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AITA for telling my mother that she can pay for my daughters funeral since she's so concerned about it?
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AITA for telling my mother that she can pay for my daughters funeral since she's so concerned about it?

My daughter d*ed 8 weeks ago from SIDS. She was 6 days old and as you can imagine, it devastated the entire family. I've been planning her funeral but even for a baby, its quite expensive. My mother has been hounding me about "getting it over and done with" because in her culture, peoples funeral happens a few days after their death. I've been saving for the past few weeks to give my baby the f...

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