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AITA for not telling my straight roommate, who sometimes walks around the apartment n**ed, that I'm gay?
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AITA for not telling my straight roommate, who sometimes walks around the apartment n**ed, that I'm gay?

I struggled with writing this. I'm in the closet to everyone so throwaway account for obvious reasons. My roommate is a straight man, let's call him Tom. We share a two-bedroom and have been friends for like a year. Anyway, he will sometimes walk around the apartment n**ed in the shared living areas (living room, kitchen, etc.). I will just say real quick that he has a great body all around. He...

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AITA for asking my girlfriend of almost 3 years for n**es?
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AITA for asking my girlfriend of almost 3 years for n**es?

We call each other every night, and I really value those moments we share. It's the time when we can connect on a deeper level, beyond just small talk. I rarely ask her to send n**es, and when I do, it’s never with any expectations. I don’t make it a condition for our relationship or push her to do som**hing she’s uncomfortable with. But every time I do ask, she gets upset and seems personal...

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AITA for really liking this Merle Haggard song?
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AITA for really liking this Merle Haggard song?

It's r***st as h**l. I recognize that. It's from a different time, I recognize that. H**l, it's basically just a song protesting affirmative action. Merle was never the most forward thinking man, but d**n if it isn't the catchiest song I've ever heard. I'm a huge Merle Haggard fan and I love this song, but people keep trying to point out to me that I can't love this song without being a r***st. ...

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AITA for getting frustrated with foreign shoppers that don't speak my language?
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AITA for getting frustrated with foreign shoppers that don't speak my language?

I'm a retail manager in a large department store. This store likes to advertise all sorts of discounts that apply to almost nothing, or require opening a credit card, or have some other bu****it attached to them. Then they advertise 30% off and it applies to 10% of the merchandise with the other 90% taking no discounts whatsoever. It's frustrating and confusing, I a*sume deliberately. All the t...

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AITA For Not Wanting my Boyfriend to Listen to an Offensive Podcast?
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AITA For Not Wanting my Boyfriend to Listen to an Offensive Podcast?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We live together and I thought we were very close and had no secrets from each other. About a month ago I heard him cracking up and he had headphones in listening to som**hing on his phone. I asked him what he was listening to (out of curiosity, not nosiness) and he said "oh it's just a s***id comedy podcast" and looked uncomfortable. I then aske...

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AITA for thinking "white t**sh" is a r***st term?
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AITA for thinking "white t**sh" is a r***st term?

Lemme start this off by saying that I'm not r***st so any terms that get used that might be considered offensive are just being used as examples. I love and hate all races equally. All of humanity is ga***ge. Anyhow, on to the matter at hand. I believe the term "white t**sh" is inherently r***st to all races *except* white people. I think using the term is actually pretty awful once you realize w...

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AItA/R***st: I tried to get a guy to clarify what he said, and he stormed out because he thought I was criticizing his grammar (which does suck)?
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AItA/R***st: I tried to get a guy to clarify what he said, and he stormed out because he thought I was criticizing his grammar (which does suck)?

The one black guy in my small office (Will) is inarticulate, and he knows it. He calls it ebonics. The rest of us are caucasians. He says things like "I *brought* a dozen eggs at the store." And it's obvious he means "bought", so anyone who tells him he should have said "bought" more than once is busting his balls because they want to be a grammar n**i. Most people do this to him, but I don't. B...

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AITA for not being more quiet after 10pm?
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AITA for not being more quiet after 10pm?

My apartment's quiet hours start at 10 pm. After 10, I don't vacuum, I keep the TV quiet, etc. But, I don't go to bed at 10 pm, so I'm up, I'm sometimes folding laundry, etc. My neighbor goes to bed at 10 pm. Sometimes, when I'm walking (not jumping, not marching, *walking*) she bangs on the floor (her ceiling) to make me, I don't know, go to bed? Last night was especially bad. Long story short,...

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AITA for refusing to sleep with my boyfriend’s dogs?
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AITA for refusing to sleep with my boyfriend’s dogs?

I recently moved in with my boyfriend (after dating about a year). The problem is that he has two large labs that sleep in his bed every night. Now, I like dogs, but I probably don’t qualify as a dog person by Reddit standards. Anyway, sharing a bed with them is too much for me. The hair, drool, etc is just not want I want in my bed. Anyway, my boyfriend apparently thought I would get past this...

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AITA for not hanging out with girlfriend on her Bday
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AITA for not hanging out with girlfriend on her Bday

So back in August I met this girl (we'll call her Jessica). Jessica and I started talking a lot and in early September we started dating. The relationship was pretty casual. We go to different schools so I would only get to see her on the weekends. Most of the time we would watch a movie or get food together. From what I could tell we were both pretty content with the direction the relationship ...

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AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over "consent required"?
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AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over "consent required"?

Before any of you start freaking out at me, I want to say that I fully support both women and men asking for consent before getting touchy or s*xual with another person, and I would never in my life think about treating another person that way. Now that thats out of the way, the AITA moment. I've been with my girlfriend for the last 8 months. In this time, we've slept together, been s*xual togeth...

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AITA for not wanting to call my GF on NYE?
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AITA for not wanting to call my GF on NYE?

After spending Christmas with my GF of two years and her family, I decided to take a boys trip to a friend's cabin for NYE - which my GF has repeatedly encouraged. She'll be spending it at home with friends or family. Recently, she mentioned that she'd like me to call her when the clock strikes midnight. I hesitated because I would find it rude to excuse myself from the party with old friends, p...

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