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WIBTA if i told my roommate that he absolutely should not be using Magnum condoms?
Boundaries

WIBTA if i told my roommate that he absolutely should not be using Magnum condoms?

About three weeks ago, my roommate had sex with a girl, and the aftermath was a nightmare. He got a text from her two full days afterwards saying she had just “peed out a condom”, and that it was super “sus” that he didn’t tell her that it came off during sex. My roommate claims that he was unaware that it came off, blaming it on his tipsy state at the time the sex occurred. Yesterday we we

Sarah Mitchell
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AITAH for locking up my food and toiletries so my roommate would stop using them?
Food & Diet

AITAH for locking up my food and toiletries so my roommate would stop using them?

So i (25F) live with a roommate (26F), let’s call her Jess. We’ve been living together for about 8 months now, and from the start, she’s been kind of a moocher. I’m talking about constantly using my stuff, my shampoo, my conditioner, my body wash, my snacks, my frozen meals, my freaking perfume. I’ve mentioned it several times, always politely, and she always says something like “oh sorry! I’ll

Emily Rodriguez
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AITA for sharing pictures of my bathroom after my new neighbor urinated all over my bathroom (my drywall, toilet, and trashcan)? They say they now don't feel welcome in the neighborhood.
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AITA for sharing pictures of my bathroom after my new neighbor urinated all over my bathroom (my drywall, toilet, and trashcan)? They say they now don't feel welcome in the neighborhood.

My wife and I wanted to welcome in our two new neighbors that moved in for privacy we will call them Blake and Jeff. We had an outdoor BBQ and had some drinks. Things were going well, we were all having a good time. Jeff and I are both into BMW's so we had a lot in common. Blake asks if he can use the bathroom and I am like sure. He goes comes back everything's normal, and then 10 minutes late

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for leaving our hotel room to use the lobby toilet?
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AITA for leaving our hotel room to use the lobby toilet?

I (M24) am currently on a weekend away with my girlfriend (F23). I was really excited and planned this trip as a surprise, and she absolutely loved our first night out. I took her for dinner, then we watched a live musical, before heading back to the hotel. This morning, I woke up at around 6am needing to use the toilet *really* badly. I'm talking, my stomach was making those super bad noises t

Rachel Thompson
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AITA for banging on my roommates door for her "night activities"
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AITA for banging on my roommates door for her "night activities"

I (F22) am currently attending college, and to cut costs, I moved in with someone (F21). While we get along fine, I wouldn’t really call us friends. We have different lifestyles, but we respect each other's boundaries, for the most part. Her boyfriend basically lives with us. I honestly don’t have a problem with that, he’s chill, keeps the fridge stocked (even if it costs me a few yogurts 😞💔)

Emily Rodriguez
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AITA for putting a camera in my bedroom?
Boundaries

AITA for putting a camera in my bedroom?

I(22M) live in an apartment with my roommate(22M). We are both attending college part-time and get along well with one another. The lease is under my name only, my roommate is not planning on living in the apartment after college. I do work night shift 3 days a week. My hours are 7PM-7:00AM. He sometimes has his girlfriend stay overnight, which is no problem as my boyfriend will stay when he v

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for having my husband out of the delivery room when he brought his mother instead of mine?
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AITA for having my husband out of the delivery room when he brought his mother instead of mine?

This happened a few weeks ago when I delivered my son. We had an agreement before that my husband would be by my side during the delivery. When the moment comes, I suddenly had a change of mind and started to miss my mother desperately as if I would never see her again. I knew she had lessons that day but wanted her by my side, so I asked my husband to call and drive her here. When my husban

James Anderson
2.73K
AITA for leaving my partner's kids (9 and 13) unattended in a hotel pool to go the bathroom?
Parenting

AITA for leaving my partner's kids (9 and 13) unattended in a hotel pool to go the bathroom?

First time travelling with my partner (49M) and his two boys, 9 and 13. I get along great with the boys. They're awesome, smart, creative, funny kids. They can also be jerks, but that's normal. I'm on the verge of becoming an official step mom, which would be a big "step" for all of us.. lately I've felt extra scrutiny from the three of them (kids and boyfriend), which makes sense. Both

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for punishing my son by taking away his phone after he deleted my daughter's Minecraft world?
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AITA for punishing my son by taking away his phone after he deleted my daughter's Minecraft world?

I (41f) am married to my husband (42m) and we have two kids: our son (11m) who we will call Zach, and daughter (9f) who we will call Lizzie (not their real names for privacy reasons). Lizzie LOVES the video game Minecraft, and has played it nearly every day since we bought it for her on Xbox for her 8th birthday. She is a super artsy kid and loves to create extravagant buildings and structures

Michael Chen
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Parenting

AITA for leaving my toddler with my 'childfree' sister for a few minutes, resulting in a trip to the emergency room?

I (18f) have a 2 year old daughter who lives with me and her father (18m), but spends two daytimes a week with my mom so that I can run errands (such as going to the doctors, doing the food shopping, cleaning the house, etc) and because my mom loves to spend time with my daughter. My 27 year old sister was visiting my mom's house for the week from out of town. My sister and I have never really go

Michael Chen
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AITA for asking my neighbour to move her craft room to a different bedroom
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AITA for asking my neighbour to move her craft room to a different bedroom

My husband and I live in an upstairs 3 bedroom flat and the flat below us is the same lay out. The house has been for sale for awhile and recently a woman bought it. It turns out she doesn't have any children so I found it strange she bought a 3 bedroom house but I soon found out it's because she runs a craft business from home and needs 2 bedrooms to run it. The problem is unfortunately she h

Emily Rodriguez
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AITA for sitting with my husband and his friends although he told me he needed "privacy"?
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AITA for sitting with my husband and his friends although he told me he needed "privacy"?

So, my husband is very sociable, he has many friends from different background. He'd hang out with this group of friends that consists of 6-12 guys. When we started dating I used to tag along in all of his hangouts, but after we got married he told me that I didn't need to be present for every hang out with his friends. Like not sit with him and friends when having their "guy time" playing or

James Anderson
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