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AITA for putting an outside lock on my bathroom to prevent my wife from using it?
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AITA for putting an outside lock on my bathroom to prevent my wife from using it?

My wife [25F] and I [31M] bought a house together about six months ago. This is our first time living together. Our house is an old American house that has been reformed many times. As a consequence of this, it has a silly layout where there are two bathrooms right next to each other that share the same wall. When we pulled the trigger on buying it, we made an agreement that I'd take the bathr

Michael Chen
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AITA for dancing half naked in my living room leading to my bf and his family seeing me?
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AITA for dancing half naked in my living room leading to my bf and his family seeing me?

This is so so so embarrassing but I can't take it anymore. I have to know if i'm in the wrong here. I need to apologise if so... I (21F) was told by my bf, "Nate" (26M) that i'd get the house to myself for the weekend. He said he had to go visit his parents to take care of a property related issue. I was pretty excited to have the house to myself because I have been living with Nate since I was

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for telling my roommate that her anorexia is not my problem?
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AITA for telling my roommate that her anorexia is not my problem?

We are both 23F. It’s been getting into the 90s (F) where we live, so I’ve been turning on the ac when I get home. I also work a physically intense outdoor job so I come home really sweaty and exhausted from the heat. The apartment will stay cool enough for me to fall asleep but then later on I’ll wake up in the middle of the night completely drenched in sweat. I’ll then get up and find out th

Rachel Thompson
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AITA for what I told my mother In Law when she asked to be in the delivery room?
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AITA for what I told my mother In Law when she asked to be in the delivery room?

My husband (m33) & I (f30) are expecting a baby boy, We're barely catching up with preperation and getting everything ready. His mom (kind of a busy body type but can be helpful at times) invited us for dinner and said she has an important request to make. She brought her request up at dinner table and blatantly said that she wanted to be in the delivery room with me when I give birth. I was ta

Emily Rodriguez
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AITA for removing the door to my son's room indefinitely?
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AITA for removing the door to my son's room indefinitely?

Yesterday while I was making lunch I heard a really loud sound, as if the ceiling was falling or a bookshelf had fallen. My husband (41M) and daughter (17F) were out, the only other person in the house was my son (16M). I was pretty sure he was in his room, which is at the opposite side of the house from the kitchen, so while making my way there I checked every room and everything seemed in or

Emily Rodriguez
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AITAH for telling my husband he will never be allowed in the delivery room with me again
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AITAH for telling my husband he will never be allowed in the delivery room with me again

I 28F and my husband 32M (I’ll refer to him as Shawn) recently had our first child, the pregnancy went smoothly and Shawn was amazing though out. The issues started when I went into labour, l was full term, 40 weeks 5 days with a big baby 9lb 7oz and the labour was AWFUL, it started at around 2 in the morning, I woke With pain it was manageable but very uncomfortable, I wasn’t at the point of need

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for telling my roommate that the name she chose for her baby is ‘ridiculously stupid’?
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AITA for telling my roommate that the name she chose for her baby is ‘ridiculously stupid’?

My roommate (24f) is a big Game of Thrones fan. She’s pregnant with her first child right now. She decided to name her baby, ‘Arya’. When she asked my opinion of this name, I said I it was a good name with a good meaning (Arya means noble in Sanskrit), but a lot of people have named their kids Arya/Khaleesi/Sansa because of the popularity of GoT and it might be a little too common, not that it is

Rachel Thompson
2.60K
AITA for supporting my wife after my daughter publicly exposed her diary which had "cruel" comments?
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AITA for supporting my wife after my daughter publicly exposed her diary which had "cruel" comments?

I have been remarried for a year now to my wife. I have a 15 year old daughter and a 11 year old son from my first marriage. I also have a 15 year old stepdaughter. My wife has always gotten along with my children very well and has gone above and beyond to integrate our families. And although at first my daughter was very standoffish to my wife, my wife was eventually able to bond with her. On

Michael Chen
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AITA...For telling my wife "I warned you" when our son got a lock for his room?
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AITA...For telling my wife "I warned you" when our son got a lock for his room?

My son Simon (16) moved out of the room he used to share with his little brother and got his own room a few months back. Eversince, he's been complaining about his mom barging in without knocking and interrupting his sleep and studying. Sometimes when he's changing...I know that she's his mother but he says he's got his own room and has a job and is learning to become an independent adult but

James Anderson
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AITA For losing it after my wife wanted my daughter to stop using the bathroom in the house?
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AITA For losing it after my wife wanted my daughter to stop using the bathroom in the house?

My wife and I have been together for 3yr. I have a daughter from my previous marriage. She's 14. I also have a stepson who tends to be rude at times but civil enough around adults. He's 16. He and his step sister get along well. No arguing, no yelling even better than most siblings I know which is great and it's quite a relief to see them loving and respecting each other. We have two bathro

Sarah Mitchell
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AITA for not giving my brother and his wife any privacy?
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AITA for not giving my brother and his wife any privacy?

My brother lost his job along with all his savings several months ago, and soon after he asked me if it would be okay if he (28M) and his wife (30F) stayed with me until they could afford their own place again. I hesitated at first, considering I only have a 1 bedroom apartment, but according to them they had 'no other options' so of course I invited them over and bought a blow-up mattress for

Emily Rodriguez
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AITA for not telling my fiancée about a secret room in our apartment?
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AITA for not telling my fiancée about a secret room in our apartment?

I recognize the title sounds a little ridiculous. The situation is less so. I was very fortunate to be in a position to buy an apartment straight out of college. It's a weird unit on a high floor of a weird building, but I've gut-renovated it and made it really nice. One aspect of my home was created just to fulfill a childhood fantasy. A secret room! It's simple— a flush mount bookcase put

James Anderson
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