Usually, when we go on a date, we strive to act appropriately. If it’s a first date, that is especially true.
The issue is that someone neglected to deliver the memo to this TikToker. It is clear from the video of @equanaaa guzzling down 48 raw oysters and requesting more.
With the unnamed man, she was out on her first date. She appeared to have nothing invested in the date and was only going along because she was bored and had nothing else to do.

Her date excused himself to visit the restroom when he noticed her devouring the ray oysters and then buying some pricey cuisine off the menu. The issue was that he never returned.
I am aware that some dates are going to be less successful than others. This date is better than all of the dates I have ever been on, and in certain situations it can even be a horror story.

Equana was dissatisfied when she realized that she had to foot the bill and buy her own food. She was also annoyed to see his single drink shown on the invoice.
They apparently decided to meet up after communicating over SMS for several weeks. She complained that he conducted a dine and dash after devouring $60 worth of raw oysters (thanks for sharing that, nasty).
He emailed her after grumbling and offered to cashapp the funds for the drinks as that is why they went out. She settled the tab.