Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter.

The original poster (OP) recently experienced the trauma of being suddenly laid off from a job they highly valued. This event has caused significant emotional distress. Following this job loss, OP has developed intense negative feelings directed toward friends and family members who supported the political figure referred to as the ‘Orange Man.’

While OP previously maintained civil relationships with these individuals despite political disagreements, the job loss has made it impossible for OP to overlook the political support these people show. OP is now considering permanently ending these long-term relationships, either by making a formal announcement or by silently blocking everyone involved. OP is struggling with whether these severe reactions are an overreaction and is questioning if they are wrong for considering cutting off ties with over 20 personal relationships.

Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter.

Got axed. Not going to say which agency.

I’ve always considered myself extremely tolerant and willing to love people as they are… even if we don’t agree on everything.

I’ve never been an Orange Man supporter, but I’ve kept it civil with friends and family that were. Some of them liked having a civil conversation about him. Some were belligerent about politics, so we didn’t bring it up and tried to enjoy each other’s company.

Getting cut from a great job that I really believed in with no notice has been extremely traumatic. It’s still raw, but I feel so personally betrayed by those that voted for him. I can’t see past the politics anymore when I look at these people I care/cared about.

Some have been contrite and apologetic, but then turn around and support him and VP Musk on social media.

I just can’t right now.

I’m thinking about posting something and wishing the whole herd all of the best, hope they have a good life, but I won’t be in it. Or maybe I just quietly block all of them and focus on myself for a while.

I do know that I will need to talk to my in-laws. I’ve always had a great relationship with them, but thinking of going to their house and watching Fox News almost makes me sick.

AITAH for feeling this way? Does it make me an AH for cutting all these 20+ year relationships off? Am I overreacting and acting out of emotion?

Here’s how people reacted:

capri1917

You’re processing a significant betrayal, and it’s natural to feel hurt. Recognize that your feelings are valid; this is about more than just politics—it’s about values and loyalties. If distancing yourself allows you to heal and regain focus, then do it. Don’t sugarcoat your decision when communicating with those involved; honesty will serve you better than maintaining false civility. Surround yourself with individuals who share your beliefs—it’s crucial for mental well-being. Reflect on what matters most in your relationships moving forward; this might lead to clarity and personal growth in the long run.

Alltheuniformed

Change management is hard. Do some research into it. As to the politics why hate the person delivering the message or the ones that voted for that person? Again all the hateful democrats that allowed the waste of our tax $$ for decades obviously don’t really understand how deep the corruption runs or how they misuse the fund without accountability. Take politics out of it & look at it from a personal level. If a company you invested in misspent your investment costing you more money would you like that company investigated or just ride along and let it be?

avid-learner-bot

NTA. Losing your job because of politics is really tough, and it’s totally okay to feel upset about it. I get why you’re thinking about stepping back from some relationships, sometimes we need space to heal. It might help to focus on friends who respect where you’re coming from right now. And maybe give yourself a little time before talking to family; that could be really hard, and taking your time is important

coupl4nd

Even if your friends voted Trump a) they alone didn’t change the election, b) they didn’t expect you to get fired.

By all means scorch the earth but you need to win them around to what a tyrant he is becoming to boot the fucker out at the next election. You know he will stand if he is physically fit enough… something something two CONSECUTIVE term limit…

cm4797

This is honestly why people should’ve been more willing to put their foot down with supporters before this mess even started. The reason we go here is partly because of people not caring until it happens to them, people unwilling to say what’s needed to be said to the supporters. So yes, cut them all off. Maybe next time they’ll think before they vote.

domlyfe

NTA. So many who voted for the guy did so because they couldn’t imagine the policies ever affecting them or people they know, let them feel the consequences of their actions. It’s easy to “other” people when you don’t know anyone affected, if suddenly they start losing friends over his decisions, maybe it’ll help bring people back to some sanity.

Academic_Ad1108

I feel the same. My father pushed me towards a fed job but also a hardcore orange supporter. He even bought merch and shit. He sent me a screenshot of class action info that’s going around on FB. I have been shaking with rage since he sent it. I really cannot stand anyone who agrees with that moron of a person.

Entire-Flower1259

The hope I see is that there has been pushback. Also, I suspect that the Department of Defense is particularly resistant to the changes that those two are trying to implement. That may mean that the executive office won’t have much armed leverage to use to enforce their decrees.

Bit_Goth

I mean they voted for you to lose your job. Not people I would want to be friends with anyways. The only thing Trump supporters care about is hurting other people. They have no values or desires to improve their own situation as long as it’s making a “libs” life worse.

New-Number-7810

YTA. These people did not fire you. If you block people who have been kind to you over politics then frankly it would be doing them a favor.

I’m tired of seeing “AITA for refusing to associate with anyone who isn’t my party” and comments going “n t a you hero!”.

sterilisedcreampies

The only reason I’d think to call you TA is because you didn’t do this sooner, to be honest. It kind of seems like you were fine with them being evil so long as their evil beliefs and actions were not affecting you, specifically. Which is a wee bit selfish.

Spiritual_War_Grunt

Didn’t Trump offer you leaches 8 months pay and benefits to quit and have money and time to find another job? Sound to me like you f’kd up your chance at even more free tax payers money for not being necessary.

whatever928747

MAGAs fetishize offending people, you have no obligation to keep them in your life. They made a conscious choice to be this, they chose to hurt people at the cost of the respect and friendship of normal people

AlpineRun

Don’t. That’s too easy. If you’re hurting share it. If you need help ask for it. Maybe they can help you with your resume or mock interview or better yet referrals. Don’t spare them your pain.

Practical_Abalone_92

NTA, I think it’s well past time these people suffer some social discomfort at minimum. I cut off several friends permanently on election night, I’ll never hear from again and I don’t care

calacmack

No doubt you are in a very difficult situation. Not only have you lost your job, you must also face the overt or covert lack of support from those that should care about you the most. NTA.

Secure_Engineer7151

NTA Lots of people feel that way about the present situation even without the direct impact it has had on you But sit on that idea for a week before pulling the trigger.

SignificantEcho79

NTA: but also give it a little time. We tend to act irrationally and attack when hurt. Make sure you’re in a better head and heart space before making permanent changes

Ok-Butterscotch-6708

I have been removing MAGAts from my life for months. I don’t care how long I’ve known them or how closely related we are. I have no tolerance for Nazis or dictators.

Certain_Honey6832

Cry harder….. EVERYONE is able to lose their job at any moment. What makes YOU so special??? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! Unless you’re withholding the cure for Cancer.

Isitoveryet2024

If I get fired. I’ll likely go no contact with my mother. She’s terminally ill, but she voted for DT despite both of her sons working for the government. NTA.

Mathalamus2

block everyone who supports trump. you dont need them. at all. they voted to ruin your life. full knowledge. assume they were malicious about it.

Loud_Dig_5157

My experience is that most on Reddit will think you are NTA. Reddit is an echo chamber for liberal and Trump/Musk haters.

mdax

NTA Remove the trumpers from your life, you don’t owe those turds any explanation, just ignore their emails and calls

Constantlycurious34

Just withdraw right now and stick with those you will comfortable around. Then see how you feel when it isn’t so raw

Walking_Distraction

FUCK EM. I cut em off the first go and my life has been peaceful. Only way to get rid of cancer is to cut it out.

True-Stock-2356

That fact that you call the President – Orange Man says quite a lot about you. Get some therapy and grow up.

AD_VICTORIAM_MOFO

>unironically posts links from Wikipedia and DemocracyNow

Ahahahaha!! Classic Reddit tier “response” 🤣

Historical_Method_41

In the private sector people change jobs fairly frequently. Get real.

Bulky_Designer_4965

No you are not, I have cut off ALL supporters of Vonshitsinpants!!

a2xHero

Fired pipeliner’ here. Welcome, pull up a seat. Lets talk

FreedomFighter907

Go ahead, I doubt they are going to miss you!

AssociateJaded3931

Your choice. Befriend whoever you want.

Conclusion

The OP is currently in a highly emotional state, feeling personally betrayed by the actions of people they cared about, specifically linking their political choices to the negative professional outcome OP experienced. The central conflict is between OP’s need to protect their own emotional well-being following a trauma and the expectation to maintain long-standing personal relationships despite irreconcilable values.

The core question facing the reader is whether OP’s reaction, which involves severing deep personal connections based on political alignment following a severe life event, is justified self-protection or an emotional overreaction. Should OP prioritize immediate emotional healing by cutting ties, or attempt to navigate the situation by setting firm boundaries while preserving the history of the relationships?