Guy is sending nudes to my parents and family members?

A college student thought they found the perfect mentor in the car business, only to discover a dark secret lurking beneath the surface.
Guy is sending nudes to my parents and family members?

I hung out with this guy a lot with the intention of learning to buy and sell cars. He wanted someone to hang with, and I wanted to learn the ins and outs of the car business. Big deal, that was a trade-off I could live with being broke, in college, and ready to make something of myself.

That being said, we never had sex.

He saw the situation as one with a viable future with us together, even though it was clear the relationship had an expiration date and was for business purposes. I told him after a couple of months of doing business together that I didn’t think we should see each other with the expectation of things escalating romantically, but I hope we can stay friends, etc.

Next thing I know, I’m getting calls from family members.

Apparently, while I slept at this guy’s house, he took tons of pictures of me (even staging some to make it look like we had sex). He’s sending all of the pictures via Facebook and is sending all of my family members friend requests. I’ve cut contact completely and am sort of freaking out.

I’m trying to gather all of the messages between him and my family, but so far I only have a couple.

Edit 1: I’m located in Georgia, USA. Edit 2: He also posted pictures of me on Facebook with my full name. None of them are nudes but do allude to lewd behavior.

Here’s how people reacted:

MajWrinklestic

I don’t know what you would be entitled to damage wise if anything but he has committed what GA now considers a misdemeanor of a high and aggravated nature. If he is still trying to contact your family just keep good notes of who and when and any other erroneous behavior he exhibits for the lawyer and police.
anavailabaleusername

Talk to the police and a lawyer
xpostfact

I’m very sorry this happened to you, and I’m sorry to mention this, but you should get checked for STD.

EDIT: Sorry some people don’t like this, but it’s proper legal advice.

Nicholas-DM

How old are you? And how old were you when the pictures were taken?
McNoogets

A fellow Georgian! Sadly I’ve been in a similar situation as you. Luckily we have Revenge Porn laws! Just report it to the cops and let em do what they need to do.
CourseHeroRyan

I’m going to try to clear some things up. Some of it should be irrelevant but just trying to clear it up since you already stated it.

* Spent the night at this guys house
* Had a relationship, never intercourse (though possibly sexual)
* Building off the last point, you slept nude in his house
* He has sent nudes of you out to people
* He took these nudes without permission, you never consented
* These nudes were taking in a room where you had reasonable expectation of privacy (bedroom, bathroom, etc.). Especially if you were sleeping in the same room he was?

I am not a lawyer. He violates 16-11-90. This is a misdemeanor for first time offenders.

He may have violated, 16-11-62. (Unlawful eavesdropping or surveillance), 16-11-90 is a specific subset, not sure how a lawyer/prosecutor would select different actions. He likely has violated peeping tom laws as well. He violated 16-11-90 just by sending the pictures, taking them without consent with reasonable expectation of privacy likely means he violated peeping tom laws, which I’m not sure but may label him as a sexual offender. I’m not sure if revenge porn is a different statute than 16-11-90, but hes breaking laws.

Gather all evidence. Speak to the cops immediately.

Furgems

Also, I believe that getting unwanted and unsolicited sexual imagery is a form of sexual assault. If each of your family members pressed charges for sexual assault, that may also make quite a statement.
Gavinmac

Police are taking these cases pretty seriously these days.

Conclusion

The aspiring entrepreneur’s pursuit of knowledge turned into a nightmare when their mentor betrayed their trust in the most shocking way possible. Will justice prevail for the victim of this twisted revenge?

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