
I’m at a loss. My sister has always been the golden child. Growing up, she could do no wrong. She got all the attention and praise, while I was constantly criticized. Now that we’re adults, things haven’t changed much. She still expects special treatment and gets it from our parents.
Recently, my sister announced she’s getting married. The wedding is going to be huge and expensive. My parents are footing the bill, of course. They’re also contributing a significant amount to a down payment on a house for her and her fiancé. I’m happy for her, truly, but it stings.
I’ve been working hard for years, saved diligently, and bought my own place. I’m not asking for handouts, but it’s frustrating to see such a disparity in how we’re treated. I can’t help but feel resentful, especially when my parents make comments about how lucky my sister is and how she deserves it all.
Am I the asshole for feeling this way?
Conclusion
The dust settles on a wedding that highlights a decade’s worth of disparity, leaving one sibling questioning everything. Will this ‘fairytale’ wedding be the breaking point, or is this just another chapter in a never-ending story of unequal treatment? You’ll be left wondering if this is the end of the favoritism or just the beginning of a new, bitter reality.
Here’s how people reacted:

And no one who isn’t participating is going to answer the door at all. There’s always some excited/clueless kids that go to every house but the people inside will just ignore them.
Also, no one is going to “blow up your phone” if you don’t know the rule. It’s a very mild transgression.
Finally, a 4 yo isn’t really going to care if 1 house is opting out. They’re just going to want to run to the next house. [ed. sp.]
Would a good old fashioned “my husband says I’m the asshole” not suffice here? A *Facebook group* was blowing up their phone? Jesus Christ 🤣
>She could have explained nicely. And she could have given him a little something and complimented his costume while nicely explaining the rule and he’s not bad for not knowing it.
Quality trolling.
> I asked what kind of idiot doesn’t make sure to have some bare minimum candy around on Oct 31, like use a damn calendar.
Really?? Come on now. And what kind of idiot doesn’t know that if the porch light’s off and they don’t answer after a few knocks, the house isn’t participating?