AITA for ordering alcohol?

You won’t BELIEVE what happened next on this solo Tenerife trip! A solo traveler, seeking a relaxing all-inclusive getaway, found themselves in a dining situation that quickly escalated from awkward to utterly outrageous. Little did they know, a simple meal at a communal table would turn into a dramatic showdown, all thanks to a family’s shocking demands and a surprising twist of fate. What started as a quiet evening with a glass of wine took an unexpected turn when a family of five, complete with young children, joined the table, bringing with them a wave of judgment and a bizarre accusation. The scene was set for a confrontation that would leave everyone speechless, especially the unsuspecting solo traveler.

The mother of the family, with a stern gaze, immediately declared their discomfort with the traveler’s drink, citing a desire to shield their children from alcohol consumption. This unexpected pronouncement put the solo traveler on the spot, but they stood their ground, calmly suggesting the family could request a different table if the situation was truly problematic. However, the family seemed more intent on making passive-aggressive remarks about the traveler’s solo status, adding another layer of discomfort to an already tense atmosphere. It was clear this dinner was not going to be the peaceful escape the traveler had envisioned, and the real drama was just beginning to unfold.

As the solo traveler stepped away to grab some food, they returned to find their drink mysteriously vanished. This bewildering act was followed by an even more astonishing encounter with a waiter, who, prompted by the family’s fabricated story, questioned the traveler’s age and accused them of sneaking away from parents. The sheer audacity of the false claim was mind-boggling, but the swift resolution by the apologetic waiter, who returned with a fresh glass of wine, seemed to bring a moment of relief. However, the story was far from over, and the ultimate reaction from the solo traveler would prove to be the most jaw-dropping part of this entire ordeal.

AITA for ordering alcohol?

I’m currently on a solo trip in Tenerife, all-inclusive to save having to look for places to eat by myself. The hotel has club-style seating, meaning that all tables are tables of 8 and people get sat together, apparently it’s to encourage a sense of community and conversation…

Last night, I was seated first and had a glass of wine. A family of 5 got seated at my table: 2 adults and 3 children. The mother turned to me and said, “We do not wish to expose our children to women drinking alcohol.” I smiled and said perhaps they should ask to move tables if it was an issue, but I would be drinking the wine.

They noticed I was on my own and made passive-aggressive comments about this. I went up to get food, and on my return, the wine had disappeared. A waiter came over and asked to see my wristband (for the all-inclusive) and said the family had told them I was underage and must have sneaked away from my parents.

He was very apologetic and returned with a fresh glass of wine just as the family came back with their food. AITA for then requesting the waiter brought me the full bottle along with a couple of shots of vodka? The family stormed out of the restaurant when I drank the shots as they arrived at the table!

Here’s how people reacted:

_-Cleon-_

> the mother turned to me and said ‘we do not wish to expose our children to women drinking alcohol’

Then don’t take your kids to places where alcohol is served, Mormonella.

NTA.

rosythorn_

NTA.

“we do not wish to expose our children to women drinking alcohol” Is that so? Great, I’ll show you how a real woman drinks

Euphoric-Treacle-420

What family goes to an all inclusive in Tenerife and doesn’t expect to see women drinking alcohol!
They will have to blindfold the children
Felix_Fickelgruber

NTA.

The audacity to go lie about you being a naughty child that sneaked away to have alcohol. What the actual hell?

But also: it’s only offensive if women drink alcohol? So it’s okay for a man to do that? That’s misogynistic. Why shouldn’t a woman get to enjoy herself?

IanFaiths-CricketBat

You are an absolute legend for requesting the full bottle of wine and vodka shots. This level of pettiness is something we should all aspire to.
Emergency-Piano4792

NTA. You are my hero for 1: going on a trip like that solo and 2: for ordering a full bottle of wine and the vodka shots to spite that mother!
honorthecrones

So a woman drinking in front of their kids is bad. Lying to a waiter, making unfounded accusations about you to staff and being rude to a stranger is okay? Interesting sliding scale on that moral code of theirs
New-Lifeguard-9494

NTA. Were you petty? Absolutely, and I am living for it. This was fantastic, and I would have done the same. I cannot stand parents who believe they can police other people because they want to shield their children unnecessarily from perfectly normal aspects of life.
Puzzleheaded-Salt278

NTA. LOL. if they don’t want people/women drinking alcohol near their kids they shouldn’t have come to Spain.
mrsbinfield

NTA you know this , you wanted to tell us what a legend you are.

But in case you have any doubt – you’re a legend 🍷

They should stay the fuck at home – enjoy your holiday 😌☺️

MacaroonSad8860

NTA! They’re in Spain, not Saudi Arabia.
KayElizabeth67

Expecting people to cater to your preferences in a public space is actual insanity. “My rights don’t end where your discomfort begins”
MtnMoose307

NTA, but the parents are sanctimonious idiots. If they don’t want to expose their kids to women doing adult activities they need to brainwash them at home.
Zazzog

NTA. If they didn’t like that you were drinking, your suggestion was correct; they should’ve asked to be reseated.
jazzvoodoodonuts

NTA. I write this as a woman currently on a solo trip in Egypt at an all inclusive with a glass of wine in hand, I’m applauding your pettiness.
BoobySlap_0506

NTA. You were sitting there first THEN they were seated at your table? If they dont want the kids around alcohol, they can get up and sit somewhere else.
Midlife_Crisis_46

NTA. For gods sake, you were there first, it’s a place where everyone gets seated together, they do not have a right to tell you, you can’t have a glass of wine with dinner. If you don’t want your children exposed to alcohol THEN DONT TAKE THEM TO PLACES THAT MIGHT SERVE ALCOHOL. But they absolutely do not have a right to tell you what to do.
helpthe0ld

NTA and that is a level of petty that I respect so much. Well done!
SheeScan

NTA

This is professional level pettiness. Well done.

Zaula_Ray

NTA. You didn’t ask to play this game. They made up the rules, and you just beat them at it. Well done.

Conclusion

The table was set for a moment of pure, unadulterated vindication. Just as the apologetic waiter returned with a replacement glass of wine, the very family who had concocted the outlandish story about underage drinking sauntered back to their seats. What happened next was nothing short of legendary. The solo traveler, armed with the waiter’s apology and a fresh glass, made a bold request: not just a glass, but the entire bottle of wine, and to top it all off, a couple of shots of vodka. The waiter, perhaps sensing the injustice and ready to witness a spectacle, obliged.

The arrival of the full bottle and the potent shots signaled the beginning of the end for the antagonistic family. As the solo traveler downed the vodka with impressive speed, the family’s reaction was immediate and dramatic. Their faces contorted in horror and disbelief as they witnessed the very act they had tried to prevent, but amplified to an extreme degree. Unable to stomach the sight, the family abruptly gathered their belongings and stormed out of the restaurant, leaving behind a stunned silence and a triumphant solo traveler.

So, was the solo traveler in the wrong for this epic mic drop? The story concludes with a powerful statement of self-assurance and a refusal to be intimidated or judged. It’s a tale that proves sometimes, the best way to deal with passive-aggressive judgment is with a full bottle of wine, a few shots of vodka, and a defiant spirit. This Tenerife trip certainly delivered more excitement than anyone could have anticipated, leaving us all wondering if the family ever learned that some solo travelers know exactly how to handle themselves – and their drinks!

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